Youth ages 12-18

Family Mission Statement Success: One Family's Story

For years now people have talked about making family mission statements. In books and on blogs we hear about the principles behind making a family plan and get inspired to try new things at home.

 

However, statistically most people don't actually make mission statements and use them even though they are inspired by the idea. Why?

 

Teenagers And Cell Phone Use: Warning!

teenager on cell phone

 

A few years ago I noticed a new sign posted at our local swimming pool. The sign read, “Absolutely no cell phone use in the locker rooms!”

 

At first, when I saw the sign I felt like some of my rights had been taken away or something. It felt like I was being controlled.

Talking To Teenagers: Three Tips

 

Nicholeen, I can't seem to correct my 16 year old son without him getting upset. He rolls his eyes and looks away from me. He just seems to have a wall surrounding him that none of us can penetrate. I know I am not the calmest parent either, but there must be something I can say to get his attention or something.

Preparing For School With An Ex-Super Mom & My Homeschool Schedule

(This article contains Nicholeen's daily home and school schedule for this coming year & a video of how she makes a yearly plan for the family.) 

We have all heard the term “super mom” before. Some people have a positive association with the term. They think, “Wow, that lady is amazing. I want to be a super mom like her.” And, some have a negative association with the term.

What! Adversity is good?

We live in very difficult times. Many people worry about what is on the horizon, and what future adversities will come.

 

No need to worry. Adversity shouldn't be feared. It should be accepted and embraced.

 

Importance of Child Development: Are Friends Essential? Part 1

 

Can You Have Too Little Friend Time?

Too Much Friend Time Part 2: Making Confident Children

 

Last week I wrote an article which generated a lot of discussion called Can Too Much Friend Time Hurt Children?  Since I received so many emails about the topic I feel it is important to address it again. Some people expressed thanks, and others confusion.

Keeping Teens Safe: The Internet Threat

“Mrs. Peck, I am afraid I can't believe in God.”

 

“What do you mean? How do you know?”

 

“I just don't do things I should do and I do some things girls my age shouldn't do...”

 

“What are you doing that you shouldn't do?” I asked

 

“I just...spend my free time with two guys I don't know...we just use facebook.

Yes Or No? ~Parent Choices

Is it easier to tell children yes or no when they ask a question?

 

The answer to this question could depend on what kind of person you are.

 

Are the kind of parent who really likes to be in control of the goings on in the family and don't like to be bothered with plans changing, outfits changing, or extra work for a new idea? If you are this kind of person you probably find it is easier to tell the children no when they ask to go play at a friends, finger paint, make cookies, or go swimming.

 

Help For Teenagers: "I am NOT a teenager!"

If you are tired of teenage attitudes and problems this is something you will want to know.  www.iamnotateenager.com has a free book preview written by youth for teens. The book shows teenagers there is a different way to be.  They can be "youth" instead.  There is a difference.