Relationships
Family Mission Statement Success: One Family's Story
Submitted by Nicholeen on Thu, 01/12/2012 - 02:27
For years now people have talked about making family mission statements. In books and on blogs we hear about the principles behind making a family plan and get inspired to try new things at home.
However, statistically most people don't actually make mission statements and use them even though they are inspired by the idea. Why?
Sibling Rivalry Movie: Computer Fights
Submitted by Nicholeen on Sun, 12/04/2011 - 01:44
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Last week my post was about sibling rivalry. Here is a movie which shows how knowing to disagree appropriately is a skill which helps sibling rivalry.
This sibling rivalry solution video was filmed while I was doing some private self-government teaching for a family. I thought the children did very well with their new skills! It is hard to learn new stuff. But, both children will have much more happiness now that they understand that disagreeing appropriately is for their relationsh
Sibling Rivalry: How To Stop Children From Fighting
Submitted by Nicholeen on Thu, 11/24/2011 - 02:07
Questions: Children Fighting
“Any tips on dealing with sibling rivalry? Homeschooling is not productive due to this issue.”
“My children seem to fight about everything. Most of the stuff is stupid, like whose turn it is to sit in the front seat, or who gets what place to watch a movie. Is this just normal sibling rivalry they will grow out of, or is this something I can fix? Please help!”
Is is possible to be siblings without rivalry?
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Great Thanksgiving Traditions: Showing Gratitude
Submitted by Nicholeen on Fri, 11/18/2011 - 18:59
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Traditions establish identity. I don't know a person who isn't proud of their family traditions. Those traditions make us who we are. They teach us what “the good life” looks like and create feelings of unity and love which instill desires for more family experiences and deeper relationships. Traditions give us hope for our futures.
Dealing With Difficult Family Members?
Submitted by Nicholeen on Sat, 11/05/2011 - 02:52
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The Question:
“Nicholeen, I have been working really hard at having self-government with my spouse and children, but I don't see how to have self-government with people in my extended family who are extremely difficult. Also, I am not their mother. How do you deal with difficult family members? What do you suggest?”
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Halloween: Two Ways To View The Holiday
Submitted by Nicholeen on Wed, 10/26/2011 - 18:37
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The Question:
“Nicholeen, what do you do for Halloween? It seems like such a dark holiday, and I really don't like participating.”
My Answer:
I love the quote, “Bring your children up in light and truth.” That is the rule I follow regarding Halloween.
Paying Children Allowances
Submitted by Nicholeen on Thu, 10/13/2011 - 01:39
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Paying Children Allowances
At the Peck house we don't pay allowance. We also don't pay for chores to be done. Here's why and what some other people think about the issue.
We have two businesses we own and offer our children real work opportunities. They help Dad dig holes at plumbing jobs and help Mom do shipping of books etc.
Talking To Teenagers: Three Tips
Submitted by Nicholeen on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 20:25
“Nicholeen, I can't seem to correct my 16 year old son without him getting upset. He rolls his eyes and looks away from me. He just seems to have a wall surrounding him that none of us can penetrate. I know I am not the calmest parent either, but there must be something I can say to get his attention or something.
They Can Smell It: Parenting Videos
Submitted by Nicholeen on Thu, 09/01/2011 - 02:28
Have you ever heard that old phrase about how dogs can “smell fear?” Well, dogs aren't the only ones who can smell fear; children can too. Children know the moment they have you. They know when mom is out of ideas and dad is ready to explode. They know.
All people are born with this kind of sense about other people, so it is natural for children to consider it as valuable as seeing or tasting.
What! Adversity is good?
Submitted by Nicholeen on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 01:42
We live in very difficult times. Many people worry about what is on the horizon, and what future adversities will come.
No need to worry. Adversity shouldn't be feared. It should be accepted and embraced.
