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Other Lessons to be Learned From the Race

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          In my seminars I tell a story about when I did the swimming leg of a triathlon and the life lessons I learned from that experience.  I am not going to restate all the lessons we discuss in depth in the seminar today.  Instead, I want to bring up a few other lessons from the parable of the deep water swim that are beneficial for us all to remember.   

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I was talking with a dear friend tonight about parenting.  She told me that she was doing so good with the Teaching Self Government principles in her home for about a month.  She said she really saw results whenever she remembered the principles and used them.  Then she said that her family went on a trip for a week.  Beginning on the way home from the trip, she stopped using the teaching self government principles.  She said that for some reason she just went back to her old inefficient way of running things at home. 

We all go through times when we loose focus and lapse back into the way

When do you talk about...?

I have to ask it because it’s something I struggle with talking about to my kids . . . when do you talk to your children about sex?  How do you go about it so that they understand that sex is actually a good thing at the right time and place, and not some evil thing (the world’s view) that you have to do to bring children to the world?

Places everyone! Places! And Action.

For the last month I have been co-directing a play; Shakespeare's "The Tempest".  Today was our last day of performances.  We had a matinee performance and an evening performance. 

The matinee performance started under lots of stress.  We were missing our stage hand, two of our actresses, and our sound person.  Everyone was stressed.  The play started late.  The only thing we had time to do was say a prayer.  We usually take time getting into character at the beginning as well as do energy building exercises.  We had time for none of this, but the play had to go on. 

The youth said all o

Respecting Property

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My four year old son was standing on the back porch this afternoon, talking to his sister.  They were trying to make each other laugh by doing funny things.  This is a common game with the two of them.  All of the sudden I heard a loud BANG on the window located right next to the porch.  I ran to the door and saw my four year old standing there holding a garden shovel, smiling and laughing with his sister. 

 

Disagreeing Appropriately

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A viewer of this site wrote:

 My kids LOVE being able to disagree appropriately, but I don't want them to do it EVERY SINGLE TIME!  They are smart and have good reasons for wanting to do things a different way, and sometimes I am very happy to let them change our direction.  But I don't like taking the time, quite frankly, to listen to their opinion every single time I ask them to do something they don't want to do.  Suggestions?

First off, it is awesome that your children have caught on so quickly to disagreeing appropriately!  This is a huge skill to master. 

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I participate in a couple of monthly discussion groups.  The conversations at these groups are really inspiring, not to mention thought provoking. 

Last week at one of these groups, the topic turned to how much alone time parents need to be refreshed and ready to meet all of the tasks we have on our daily lists.  We all talked about how much alone time we needed daily.  Some women needed more time than others to maintain good mental health.  This is to be expected, we are all so different.  :) 

All of this talking about alone time really made me think for a couple of days.  I found mysel

Family Meeting Tips

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Don't forget your meetings! 

 

Try Looking Up!

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Today:

Wake up 5:00 am    -  Teach Water Aerobics 6:00-7:00 am   -    Buy Food for Bridal Shower tomorrow  -   Get kids ready and leave house by 8:45 am to be mentored for piano performance at the University next week -  Mentor Session in Salt Lake City  10:30-12:00  -  Drop off Library books   -  Eat lunch on the go   -   Child threw up in the car   -    Shakespeare play dress rehearsal (I am co-directing) 12:00-5:00 pm in Tooele (one hour away)  -  Eat Dinner  - Make food for the Shower tomorrow  -Etc.  -Sleep

This morning I woke up with this list of things to do today on my mind.  OK,

Mourning Routines

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2 - What kind of opportunities do you give for kids to follow through before getting consequences?

Example:  It is each child's responsibility to make their bed, tidy their bedroom, get dressed to shoes before breakfast at 7:30.  I try to say encouraging things to get kids to hurry along, letting them know how much time has passed and how much is left before breakfast - even advertising what's coming for breakfast to motivate them.  So, when they don't do it, or don't do it on time I suddenly wonder what is the right thing to do.  Do they miss breakfast?

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